For some, this change brings comfort and growth. For others, it brings new challenges. Much of this depends on understanding, support, and partnership.

For students who are married, this journey can feel even more intense. Academic life already comes with pressure. It is not only about attending classes and sitting for exams. Students must balance assessments, self-study, quizzes, and presentations. All of these require different kinds of effort, and to achieve the desired CGPA, a student has to put in time, focus, effort, and consistency.

Marriage, just like studies, also demands effort. It is not a bed of roses. There are ups and downs, responsibilities, and emotional labour that continues every day. Unlike university life, marriage does not have breaks or off days. Managing both together can be overwhelming, especially for female students.

Niva Islam, a student of the University of Asia Pacific, said, “My married life has affected my academic life as I have responsibilities towards my family now.” She also added, “Taking care of my husband’s family, cooking, and other chores, I sometimes feel discouraged about education, but my husband is very supportive and encourages me to study.” For her, spousal support has been a unique source of strength that pushes her forward.

However, not all experiences are the same. Another undergraduate student shared her harsh experience with us: “I have to serve my in-laws over my education, whether it is my final exam or not.” So, while marriage can be your strength and provide emotional support, it also requires strong balancing abilities. On this note, Sabrina Tabassum, a CSE student from AUST, stated, “I wish there were more support groups and a flexible environment for married students in universities. Managing academic deadlines and marital responsibilities is the most challenging aspect.”

On the other hand, in a marriage, support does not always come in the form of grand gestures. Sometimes, it is patience and quiet understanding between the spouses. Esha Khan from Pabna shared, “When one spouse understands what the other is going through, it creates peace instead of stress. Him being patient with my mood swings, taking on extra responsibilities, and providing silent support has helped me focus better on my studies.” Marriage is a special bond between husband and wife, and when that bond is strong, other troubles of the world become easier to face.

On this World Marriage Day, it is important to recognise that marriage is not always a barrier. For many students, it becomes a source of strength. A supportive spouse can feel like another part of yourself, always there to help, encourage, and stand beside you during difficult times.

Universities and institutions should also acknowledge the reality of married students. This does not mean special treatment, but rather an understanding environment. Recognition itself can create a more inclusive and compassionate academic atmosphere.

When built on mutual respect and support, marriage can grow alongside education. As Barbara De Angelis has said,

“Marriage is not a noun, it’s a verb. It isn’t something you get, it’s something you do.”